Prayer 101 - God is Our Father

 

Are you praying correctly?


The Lord’s Prayer

is

Every Disciple’s Prayer



 

“Prayer honours God; it dishonours self” [1]

Prayer begins and ends NOT with the needs of man but with the glory of God.[2]

Our prayer should be concerned primarily with:

    1.  who God is,

    2.  what He wants, and

    3.  how He can be glorified.

 

Those who teach otherwise are not preoccupied with the extension of Christ’s kingdom or the glory of God’s name. But they are only concerned with their own agendas. To believe that God is really some kind of genie, waiting to grant our every desire, flies in the face of Scripture’s clear teaching.

 

The Old Testament Saints knew they were to recognise God in His rightful place and bring their wills into conformity with His.

 

While in the whale belly, Jonah did not cry out of his own predicament for his sake. Instead, he said:

“When my life was fainting away, I remembered the LORD,

and my prayer came to you, into your holy temple.

But I with my voice of thanksgiving will sacrifice to you.

What I have vowed I will pay. 

Salvation belongs to the LORD!”[3]

 

Daniel was often in dangerous situations because of his strategic role in the Babylonian society. Over his concern over Judah’s captivity, he prayed:

“I prayed to the LORD my God and made confession, saying,

“O Lord, the great and awesome God, who keeps covenant

and steadfast love with those who love him and keep his

commandments, we have sinned and done wrong and acted

wickedly and rebelled, turning aside from your commandments

and rules.”[4]

 

The prophet Jeremiah lived the majority of his life in frustration and confusion, all the while weeping with a broken heart over his people. While he could easily be despaired over his ministry he never became preoccupied with his own painful circumstances. Instead, he would pray and extol the name of God.

            “Ah, Lord GOD! It is you who have made the heavens and the

earth by your great power and by your outstretched arm!

Nothing is too hard for you.”[5]

 

And that is what Jesus taught His disciples when He said:

“Pray then, in this way:

Our Father in heaven,

Hollowed be your name.

Your kingdom come,

Your will be done,

On earth as it is in heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread,

And forgive us our debts,

As we also have forgiven our debtors.

And lead us not into temptation,

But deliver us from evil.”[6]

 

The pattern of Jesus prayer was very different from the prayers of the religious leaders of His day which had corrupted the Jewish prayer life. 

Hence, our Lord gave us a divine pattern that all believers could pray in a way that is pleasing to God.

Another vital development in the manner of prayer was that Jesus introduced us to His Father. God YAHWEH who was always adored and worshipped as LORD is now a Father to His children. And Jesus reconciled us to His Father made us His brothers and sisters. What an amazing grace. 

 

This prayer should be called the Disciple’s Prayer because it is the conversation that will grow children into maturity.

GOD IS OUR FATHER

Prayer should always begin with the recognition that God is our Father,  the one who gave us life and who loves, cares for, provides for, and protects us.

The fact that God is our Father means that only believers in Christ are children in His family.

 

We remember the words of prophet Malachi:

            “Have we not all one Father?

            Has not one God created us?”[7]

 

Scriptures makes it very clear that God is the Father of unbelievers in creation. But spiritually, unbelievers have another father. In His severest condemnation of the Jewish leaders who opposed Him, Jesus said:

            “You are of your father the devil”[8]

 

John in his third epistle clearly identifies two families: the children of God and the children of the devil. The former does not continue to commit sin; the latter does.

 

The apostle made a clear distinction between the children of lights and the children of darkness:

            “For at one time you were darkness, but now you are light

in the Lord. Walk as children of light.”[9]

 

Peter in his second epistle says that only those who believe have been made

partakers of the divine nature.

“By which He has granted to us His precious and very great

promises, so that through them you may become partakers

of the divine nature.”[10]

 

It is only those who receive Him that Jesus gives them the right to become children of God. Only to those who believe in His name.

          “But to all who did receive Him, who believed in His name, He gave the right to become children of God, who were born, not of blood nor of the will of the flesh nor of the will of man, but of God[11]

 

Who is God to the believer? A Father who is...


Near

A father is closer than an uncle or a cousin or a friend or a neighbour. Psalm 68 says that:

            “God is a father to the fatherless”[12]

 

A Gracious Father

A father is forgiving, tender-hearted, merciful, and gracious to His children, which is very true of God.

            “As a father shows compassion to his children, so the LORD shows compassion to those who fear him.”[13]

 

A Guiding Father

A father leads his children and gives them wisdom and instruction. That was also true of God’s relationship with Israel. He said of them:

            “With weeping they shall come,

            And with pleas for mercy, I will lead them back,

            I will make them walk by the brooks of water,

            In a straight path in which they shall not stumble,

            For I am a father to Israel,

            And Ephraim is my firstborn.”[14]

 

A Father who requires obedience

Because God was the Father of Israel, the people were required to obey Him.

            “Do you not repay the LORD,

            You foolish and senseless people?

            Is not he your father, who created you,

            Who made you and established you?”[15]

 

When Jesus arrived on the scene in Israel, He reintroduced His Jewish audience to God as a loving, beneficent Father to those who know, love, and obey Him. In all His prayers, Jesus used the title “Abba” which is the equivalent to our term Daddy, Jesus would have used it to emphasize the personal and intimate relationship God has with His children.

 

Calling God our Father implies several things.
 
1.       It Dispels Fear
When I was a Muslim, I always lived in fear of my god and I always tried to fulfil all the duties required by the religion to obey and please my god. But the greatest gift of Christianity is that God is a loving, caring Father. The invented false gods of false religions are typically characterised as vengeful and jealous, and their worshippers must take desperate measures to appease them. But knowing that the true God is our Father dispels all such fear.
 
2.     It Brings Hope
In the midst of a hostile world that is falling apart, God is our Father, and He will take care of our future. If an earthly father will spare no effort to help and protect his children, how much more will our Heavenly Father love, protect, and help us.[16]
 
3.     It Removes Loneliness
Even if we are rejected and abandoned by family, friends, or even fellow believers, we know that our Heavenly Father will never leave us.[17]
 
4.     It Defeats Selfishness
Jesus included all of God’s children in His pattern of prayer. There is no distinction for any ranks in the community. Our Father embrace the entire community of the faithful believers. We are to pray holding up to God what is best for all, not just for one.[18]
 
5.     It Provides Resources
God is “our Father who is in heaven”. All the resources of heaven are available to us when we trust God as our heavenly supplier. He “has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in heavenly places in Christ.”[19]
Whatever you seek, whether it’s peace, fellowship, knowledge, victory, or boldness. God has an abundant supply in the heavenlies. We need only ask our Father for it.
 
6.     It Demands Obedience
If Jesus as God’s true Son, came down from heaven not to do His own will but His Father’s, how much more are we, as adopted children, to do only His will?
“For I have come down from heaven, not to do my own will
but the will of Him who sent me.” [20]
Obedience to God is one of the supreme marks of our relationship to Him as children.
Yet in His grace, God loves and cares for His children even when they are disobedient. The way Jesus tells the story of the Prodigal son in Luke 15, should be titled the Loving Father instead. The father in the story represents our Heavenly Father, who can forgive and rejoice over both a self-righteous son who remains moral and upright and a rebellious son who becomes dissolute, wanders away, but then returns.

 

When you begin your prayers by calling on “Our Father who is in heaven,” you indicate your eagerness to go to Him as a child, knowing He loves you. And you will find that He is eager to lend His ear, His power, and His eternal blessing to the requests of His children if it serves them best and further to reveal His purpose and glory.

 

Prayer

Heavenly Father, we ask Father that you bless us today. Give us wisdom in these things that Your Word teaches us and guide our hearts against prejudice and against self-righteousness and piety, but also, Father, against fear, against a lack of courage to make difficult decisions towards our spiritual maturity. We want to please You before we please man. Allow our hearts to be guided by Scripture.

Lord we thank you for Your Word. Thank you for the power that You have made plain and evident in all that You have done, for the righteousness that You have appointed in the work of Your Son Jesus Christ. By our faith in that work, Father, You have given us what we could not obtain on our own. We have become Your children and we can call you Abba. And we thank You, Abba, beyond all measure. And we will thank You in all eternity.

In Jesus Precious Name. Amen!




[1] E M Bounds, Purpose in Prayer, 43

[2] “Whatever you in my name, this I will do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son”

 

[3] Jonah 2:7,9

[4] Daniel 9:4,5

[5] Jeremiah 32:17

[6] Matthew 6:9-13

[7] Malachi 2:10

 

[8] John 8:44

[9] Ephesians 5:8

[10] 1 Peter 1:4

[11] John 1:12,13

[12] Psalm 68:5

[13] Psalm 103:13

[14] Jeremiah 31:9

[15] Deuteronomy 32:6

[16]“If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is in heaven give good things to those who ask Him!” Matthew 7:11

[17] “I will never leave you nor forsake you” Hebrew 13:5b

[18] “Praying at all times in the Spirit, with all prayer and supplication. To that end, keep alert

[19] Ephesians 1:3

[20] John 6:38



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